When i was growing up, i remember thinking that all my fore mothers beat the path ahead of me. i thought as a girl i could do anything a boy could do. Maybe better. Honestly i was a little annoyed. i wouldn't be able to make a name for myself, be the first Woman ________. It was all done. Later in in my teens i just didn't think about it. And now in my Thirties i realize there have been hertals to womens rights all along. everything from wadge imbalances to societal programming of girls to believe they don't succeed unless they are married. Seriously, how many girls out there live just to be married? i'm not talking about stay at home moms, but girls who think the only way they will gain acceptance in this world is by marrying a man. i was one.
Now the progress we have made has been threatened. By mostly male politicians wanting to take my birth control (from my cold dead hands) and declaring physical states like 'Pre-pregnant'.
So what is this all about?
back to the whole a guy who FUCKS a lot is revered and a gal who does is a SLUT.
or a whore, if he buys her dinner.
A woman who ties a man up for money is a Mistress, a woman who gets tied up for money is a whore.
IT JUST BOTHERS mE.
Why should the man even pay? for either. In some cases if he put the time and money into a emotional and physical support he doesn't need to.
if a girl and guy both like sex and he's a Dawg and she's a Slut, then why should he give more then her, financially or otherwise? i mean, if we are trying to make things even here. Because it is more costly for a woman. it costs us physically and emotionally.
Now in my thirties i can fuck someone and not think twice about it. All that catholic going to hell guilt shit has finally left the building.
but there is my time. there is prep time, waxing, shaving, putting on makeup. What if i'm not attracted to you in the first place? Wear and tear. yup it happens. every pussy is different but they can only take so much pounding. play with it too much you are opening your self up to infection. i know there are some very clean men out there. but there are some not so clean ones too.
which is why rubbers are a must.
Women are also more susceptible to disease. it's just a fact of anatomy and nature. All i'm saying is if he ain't paying you, the least he could do is buy dinner, maybe leave a little note, buy a little gift.
so why all these thoughts? mainly i'm getting into this phone sex thing. no i don't do paid sessions in person. i'm just trying to figure this all out for myself. i've tried a Mistress persona, but it just ain't me. i need to make money.
Best if it's something i enjoy doing. like talking about getting tied up and having my bottom spanked.
obviously the above is very heterosexual. i WANT experience with women, but haven't really had enough to comment on it here. maybe someone who has been in the gay community a long time would put their thoughts down.
until later,
Cheers!
*daisy
ps i don't really think anyone is going to read this. do i?
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